Hai friends

sorry for a long time i was away so thought i will catch up with you all!!

I have this thing in mind for long and has poped up again after reading Interview of famous artist M F Hussain. As an artist i respect him and admire him. I know as an artist it is not easy to simplyfy things the way he does, he has mastered that art for sure but that does not mean he can get away with every thing!!

Well in an interview he has only talked about a lady love he met in 1956 or so and proposed him marriage which she refused and married a person from her own country. After many years he found her again and met her. When he came back he received a huge parcel containing 80 paintings he had gifted her.with a note 'these belong to india and not me'

Now i do not understand his need to disclose his long last love in news paper now after so many years and talking about intimate details. Now the question is - Is it right to use your loved ones as a trophy?

To my mind any relation which is so close to your heart is a very sacred, it should not be displayed for public viewing, specialy in this case we only know one side story.
His celebrating the fact that she has not returened potraits made by him is also wrong She has not sent them back because knowing him she knew he will put them in press or may even sell them. She is a married woman now how can he let her down like this by sharing such intimate details as going to bed together ..sick! How can you say you loved her and talk of Isqe/mohabat when you do not respect her prevacy.

to my mind these private moments are to be cherished and may be can be shared with a very special friend but no more..should never ever be allowed to be talk of the town.
i think i can go on on this but must stop but pl. correct me if i am wrong!!